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A Supportive Hug

The cage we all share

Question​

 

How many times, together with other people, have you tried to build a relationship, create a dream team, implement a project, set up a company or [fill in]? 

It was supposed to be great! 

And what was the outcome?

Do you remember?

Yes?

No?

Let us remind you…

 

1. HOPE

In the beginning was an idea, some had great vision.
Soon people appeared and action followed.
Thus strategy and hope were born.
There were trust and confidence, commitment and enthusiasm.
Divine emotions!
Of course, everyone had great expectations!

2. EVERYDAY REALITY​

 

But after a while, things started to grind. 

  • Someone concealed something.

  • Someone gossiped about someone.

  • Someone felt offended.

  • Someone lied. 

  • Someone did not keep his or her word. 
     

 
3. CONFLICT​

  • The air became heavy.

  • Problems arrived and began to grow. 

  • A conflict developed, which initially went unnoticed.

  • Finally, there was a fight, whether concealed or open.​

4. DAMAGE​

 

  • How did your conflict end? 

  • Who won?

  • Who lost?

  • Did someone leave?

  • The damage was done.

5. THE PRICE OF COMPROMISE​

 

  • Even if you reached a compromise, distaste remained.

  • Certainty has turned into uncertainty.

  • Trust into distrust.

  • Enthusiasm was devoured by routine.

  • Divine feelings have disappeared forever.

6. THE ESSENCE OF ILLUSION​

  • But everyone wanted well…

  • It was supposed to be great.

  • And yet, the outcome was “business as usual” or worse.​​

When you trust and follow your mind, you will eventually end up feeling alone in or outside your relationships. Don't stop here; take the next step and see how this dynamic plays out in your work or career.

Ⓒ  FTC Harvest

Personal Apocalypse, Column 2/5, version 5.0.

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