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The cage we all share!

Question​

 

How many times, together with other people, have you tried to build a relationship, create a dream team, launch a project, set up a company or [fill in]? 

  • It was supposed to be great! 

  • And what was the outcome?

  • Do you remember?

  • Yes?

  • No?

Let us remind you…

 

1. HOPE

  • In the beginning, there was an idea that grew into a great vision.

  • Then came strategy and hope.

  • Soon, people appeared, and action followed.

  • There was trust and confidence, commitment and enthusiasm.

  • Divine emotions!

  • Of course, everyone had great expectations!

2. EVERYDAY REALITY​

 

  • But after a while, things started to grind. ​

  • Someone concealed something.

  • Someone gossiped about someone.

  • Someone felt offended.

  • Someone lied. 

  • Someone did not keep his or her word. 

 

3. CONFLICT​

  • The air became heavy.

  • Problems arrived and began to grow. 

  • A conflict developed, which initially went unnoticed.

  • Finally, there was a fight, whether concealed or open.​​

4. DAMAGE​

 

  • How did it end? 

  • Who won?

  • Who lost?

  • Did someone leave?

  • The damage was done.

5. THE PRICE OF COMPROMISE​

 

  • Even if you reached a compromise, distaste remained.

  • Certainty has turned into uncertainty.

  • Trust into distrust.

  • Enthusiasm devoured routine.

  • Divine feelings have disappeared forever.

6. THE ESSENCE OF MENTAL ILLUSION​

  • But everyone wanted well…

  • It was supposed to be great.

  • And yet, the outcome was “business as usual” or worse.​​

7. ANOTHER LOOP 

Why do things go wrong? Does it always have to be this way? How can we avoid Murphy’s Law?

  • Surely, there must be a way!

So, you'll keep trying, going through another and another round of the same loop. But why?

 

Is this your reality?

Change is not the real solution!

Ⓒ  FTC Harvest

Freedom in relationships, Column 2/5, version 5.0.

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